Tuesday, September 30, 2008

The Many Faces of My Michael

Today is "my honey's" 45th birthday. I sometimes can't believe that I have known and loved him long enough to see him reach 45. You see, I am easily bored and distracted by the numerous "shiny things" in life. "Until death us do part" seemed like an unbearably long time when I first heard it. Now, it is one of the parts of us that I love the most. And, recently I have found it interesting that my sister and I (completely different in nearly every aspect of our lives) have married men who are remarkably similar. Not just in stature, but in their dispositions, their commitment to both career and family, and then yes in looks.

Mike, me, Tanya, and her husband James
(October, 2007 when they were married)

My Michael also is patient and nurturing. He spends extraordinarily disproportionate amounts of time with our sons given the amount of hours he sees the daylight. He minds not teaching them how to make funny noises or building complicated medieval weapons with them. Yes, he will even show them how to take sneaky "I'm hiding behind a bush so you won't see me" pictures with the camera-phone (see below).

He loves his job and more often than not would rather teach (discipline: both positive and negative) than punish - even when a punishment is more deserved or warranted. The squad below has been "his squad" for nearly a year if not longer. He is currently preparing to hand over supervision to a new sergeant as he readies to move "inside" to the Vice Unit. Yet another side of him yet to be explored and appreciated by all who touch his world.

He has many different faces; many different sides; many different personalities - all of them wonderful and loving and giving and fabulous.

Happy Birthday! I love you!

Inside an Endurance Athlete's Mind

This was sent to me via the local track club "listserv" and I liked how it pointed out that we (read those crazy, self-torturing, endurance athletes) are like-minded, and that we are NOT the picture perfect model body type athletes. Yet, we persevere and continue on to the finish. Yes, the finish: that very small, all important piece of real estate that says, "You did it!"

Inside The Endurance Athlete's Mind
by Allison Van Dusen, 09.22.08, 4:00 PM ET

Bob Whitman's days start at 2:45 a.m. While the rest of us are rolling over in our beds, Whitman, CEO of the Salt Lake City, Utah-based Franklin Covey, is fitting in a few hours of biking, swimming and running before work in preparation for next month's Ford Ironman World Championship in Kona, Hawaii. Considering that the majority of Americans have trouble finding the time or energy to work out at all, let alone train for a grueling triathlon while juggling a C-suite position, it begs the question: How does he do it?

In Depth: What Are Endurance Athletes Thinking?
Much of it is mental. While many endurance athletes say there's nothing special about their physical abilities, clearly people who are drawn to and are able to accomplish feats such as marathons, triathlons and challenging ultra endurance events differ from the rest of us somehow. A big piece of the puzzle is how these athletes think about their lives, goals and the obstacles they face.

"Moderation bores me," says Dean Karnazes, who completed 50 marathons in 50 states in 50 consecutive days and wrote about the experience in the new book, 50/50. He is also currently trying to be the first person ever to complete the world's five major desert foot races in one year. "Once I did a marathon, I thought, 'Huh, I think I can go further than this.' I wanted to explore not only my physical limits but my mental confines."

A Certain Personality
Just as they tend to have a specific body type (i.e., lean, not too tall), many endurance athletes also have common personality traits, says Jenny Susser, a clinical health psychologist specializing in sports psychology at the Women's Sports Medicine Center at the Hospital for Special Surgery. These traits include persistence, endless curiosity, a lack of fear when it comes to failure and a sense of boldness.

Persistence is particularly crucial in helping endurance athletes stick to a training schedule, which they know can't be compromised no matter how much work is waiting for them at the office or how sore or tired they may feel. The benefits of showing up every day for a workout aren't just about being physically prepared on the big day. They can help an athlete feel like he or she has done everything possible to meet a challenge, ultimately translating into confidence at the starting line, Susser says.
Successful endurance athletes also have to know how to psychologically face and overcome pain during events. Roger Little, CEO of Spire Corp. (nasdaq: SPIR - news - people ) and a longtime triathlete, was competing in the World Championships Triathlon Long Distance in Almere, Netherlands, last month when he hit a giant wall.

Little swam 3.1 miles and rode his bike for 76 miles on a hot and windy course when he started to feel sick. After completing his ride, he took the first step of a 20-mile run and set what he calls a new "personal pain" record. Even though the event took him 10 hours to finish, he didn't give up--it wouldn't jibe with the way he thinks of himself as an athlete. "You get into the sport and you talk about it so much that you end up having an image you've created that you have to live up to," Little says. "You can't just say, 'I've had a bad day.'"

Pain Management While specific techniques vary, endurance athletes rely on methods of distraction to get through painful or difficult patches. Susser counsels people to focus on the technicality of their sport by zeroing in on their strides, or to play games, such as coming up with an animal for every letter of the alphabet. During the Ironman swim, while Whitman is trying to avoid getting dunked or kicked, he counts his strokes and recites a poem called The Little Red Hen to keep himself on pace.

"It might be a little like a pingpong game--this type of distraction is never 100%," Susser says. "But if you can swap your focus enough you can get yourself through it."

In the event that they should have to quit, endurance athletes know how to embrace their failures, too. Karnazes recalls passing out in 1995 at about the halfway mark of his first attempt of the Badwater Ultramarathon, a 135-mile run through Death Valley in the middle of summer. The experience was crushing, since Karnazes had spent six months training and planning for the race. He later realized that his problem wasn't his preparation, but his lack of mental flexibility. At some point early on, Karnazes unknowingly downed some nonpotable water, which quickly made him sick. Rather than slowing down and letting his body recover, he pushed himself to nail a certain time--a decision that cost him the chance to cross the finish line. But the experience infused in him a fire to conquer the course the following year, as well as many times since.

"Unless you push yourself to failure," Karnazes says, "you don't know how far you're going to go."

The link below takes you to a slide show courtesy of Forbes.com (this is also the originating site of this article).

Sunday, September 28, 2008

Another Two Weeks of Training

The next two weeks of training will be interesting to say the least. I am the anchor leg (run) of a new 70.3 Triathlon at Amelia Island next weekend, so that will be my long run for the week. In addition to some shorter runs this week and next, I am really trying to incorporate a good stretching routine/regimen to help me over my hamstring problem(s). So, there will be some shorter runs and more biking in hopes of assisting in the healing process. So, here you have it for whatever it's worth to you - probably nothing...


9.28 - Rest, Relax, Hang out with The Boyz
9.29 - 4 miles from home 5:30 a.m.
9.30 - 6 miles from home 5:30 a.m.
and...it's Mike's 45th Birthday!!!
10.1 - 4 miles from home 5:30 a.m.
10.2 - Rest (City/County Middle School Cross Country Championship Event)
10.3 - Rest - get myself to Amelia Island
10.4 - Atlantic Coast Triathlon (70.3) with Andra (1.2 mile swim), Kathy (56 mile ride), and me (YIKES! 13.1 mile run) 10.5 - Rest; maybe......ride easy
10.6 - Rest
10.7 - 5 miles from home 5:30 a.m.
10.8 - 7 miles from home 5:30 a.m.
10.9 - 5 miles from home 5:30 a.m.
10.10 - Rest
10.11 - The options are endless: Race for the Cure 5K in Birmingham or the Spaghetti 100 Ride

And, then again, we're off to the races...

Thursday, September 25, 2008

What do you call it when...?

What do you call it when the top three runners on your team run faster than the previous two weeks and yet it seems that you might not win the meet? I don't know either, but it is not any fun to look those runners in the face and try to explain it. Thankfully, you sit around eating snow cones and wait for the results to be announced. The top three Raa runners this week were "on their game." However, BelleVue, Cobb and Fairview all "came to play" this week. Not-to-mention Swift Creek had once again brought some of their swiftest: Scott Fortier and Trevor Touchton.

Below is nearly all, if not all, of the
2008 Raa Boys Cross Country Team and Coaches.

The Everhart Owl Run is held in the West quandrant of the city at the Gretchen Everhart School. Before the starting bells ever clanged, I had the privilege of meeting and working with a couple of the students who are associated with The Alzheimer's Project. The Owl Run begins with a category just for the students of the school and it is so inspiring to see them run a small portion of the middle school competition course. All of the middle school competitors, the coaches, and parents line the course to cheer the Everhart runners across the field, around the turns, through the playground, down the hill and into the finish chute. It genuinely warms the heart and soul to see all of those mainstream middle schoolers cheering for those they may never again lay eyes on. I am glad they had the opportunity to see someone outside their circle of friends and social life that enjoys the same thing they do: running in the cool of the new come autumn, and enjoying the splendor of God's world around them.

Raa, with 5 or 6 girls in the top ten, had some punch this week. Unfortunately, they sacrificed first place to Deer Lake's CeCe Williams who flew down the final hill for a sub-12 minute finish. Then Rachel Givens (Raa) came in for 2nd after having battled what appeared to be cramps and then getting sick in the finish area. Camille and Ursula were right on her heels, and then along came Lia Lombardi (Deer Lake), Jessica and Lindsey for a couple more top ten finishes.

"Wonderful" Will Henderson and Cameron "The Amazin' Blazin' Asian" Wong (complete with his Oriental Power) took the 1-2 place finishes again this week. Hey, at least they are consistent. It seems to me that Will was 11:55 or better and that Cameron was not far behind him as he powered up the hill and around then bend then back down the hill to the finish. Colin finished in 10th Place with a 12:39; dropping time again from last week's 12:47 in Tom Brown Park.

Colin as he comes up hill towards the water stop and
turn around for the half-way point.

Tuesday, September 23, 2008

A Runner's Ten Commandments

I am sure, in fact very sure, that most of us have heard most of these before today. However, I always like them, so they are today's "insight." I find my self guilty or succumbing to many of them frequently. I think I'll try to be better about that.

1. Don't be a whiner. Nobody likes a whiner, not even another whiner.
2. Getting out of bed (walking out the door) is often the toughest part of any run.
3. Don't make running your life. Make it part of your life.
4. During group training runs, don't let anyone run alone.
5. Keep promises, especially ones made to yourself.
6. When doing group runs, start on time no matter who's missing.
7. The faster you are the less you should talk about your times.
8. Keep change in your pocket. One day you'll need to call for a ride.
9. Don't compare yourself to other runners.
10. All runners are equal, some are just faster than others.

Thank you, Joe Kelly (via the July/August 2008 Fleet Foot, newsletter of the Gulf Winds Track Club).

Thursday, September 18, 2008

How to Achieve A Goal

"This week's report from the Middle School Cross Country world" ... insert teletype sounds as heard in the forties on the news reels ...

On the south east side of town sits a large green and grassy area surrounded by woods and trails complete with a lake and a pond or two. Locals call this place Tom Brown Park. Today it was the location of the "Swift Creek Battle at 'The Brown'." For the second time this season the middle schools of Leon County gathered their most adept cross country runners, boys and girls, in one place to strut their stuff. Running in Tom Brown is challenging, as many of us endurance runners will tell you, and that is me plodding along at a 9 minute/mile or slower pace. These kids are racing, yes racing, over the same terrain at about 6.30 minute/mile or better without killing themselves. A lot of the course is not visible to the casual observer, but if you yourself run from "turn to turn" and you don't mind sweating you can see the runners at least 4 different times.

Colin's goal this week was simple: Break into the top ten. Nothing more; nothing less. He told me plain as day, "All I want to do this week, Mom, is make the top ten." "Okay," I said to him, "then you better pick a fast kid, and stay with him."

Fortunately for Colin, this meet starts in an open field where the kids have some room to spread out, and not on a track where each school is given only one lane to cram full of runners. No crowds to contend with, and only one fall near the start to avoid. He broke well, came through the first turn in 11th, and when I saw him next on the trails, he was in 8th. He had some left at the finish and sprinted in from a good 100 yards out.
He had a great run, and a wonderful finish. He had picked the fast kids, and refused to let them out of his sight. Now, that's how you achieve a goal: Set one that is first attainable; have a plan; and stick to it.

The girls were wicked fast this week. Cece Williams (2nd place last week) blazed in first at just about 12 minutes. Rachel, last week's winner, followed closely behind at just over 12 minutes. She was followed by Lia Lombardi (3rd last week) and just a bit later Camille from Raa and Ursula from Raa were soon in. I honestly don't remember the rest of the top ten girls, but my photos (to be inserted later) will help to jog my memory I am sure.

Top Five Girls
1st - Cece Williams, Deerlake
2nd - Rachel Givens, Raa
3rd - Lia Lombardi, Deerlake
4th - Camille Baker, Raa
5th - Jessica Beyer, Raa
6th - Ursula McPherson-Vitkus, Raa

I was told that the boys were a bit off the pace this week-not by much, but no less fabulous to watch. And, in the end, it seems they all beat last week's times. Will Henderson held onto the Boys' First place for a second week in a row as his teammate Cameron Wong (The Amazin' Blazin' Asian - a nickname he enjoys, by-the-way) screamed in for second place and then Scott Fortier of Swift Creek. Colin and a fourth Raa runner, Wil Luca, rounded out the top ten in 9th and and 10th place respectively.

It should be pointed out that that 7th, 8th, and 9th places were all scored and timed (12:47) identically and Colin, who actually finished 8th, just didn't argue with the finish line officials and took the 9th place like a champ standing proudly next to his 6th grade Team Mate.

Top Ten Boys
1st - Will Henderson, Raa
2nd - Cameron Wong, Raa
3rd - Scott Fortier, Swift Creek
4th - Trevor Touchton, Swift Creek
9th - Colin Abbey, Raa
10th - Wil Luca, Raa

Tuesday, September 16, 2008

Custom Runner's Word Art

Okay, so I just loved Erin's on her blog page. What can I say? The "wordle" site is awesome in how it pulls words randomly from your blog and makes this. I love it!

To view it in a larger window, just click on it. It really is cool. ;-)

Training: 14 - 27 September 2008

Sunday - REST! 10 "good" miles yesterday
Monday - Rest - just a bit more
Tuesday - 5 from the house 5:30 a.m.
Wednesday - 7 from the house 5:30 a.m.
Thursday - Rest
Friday - 5 from the house 5:30 a.m.
Saturday - Hmmm.... 13-15 EARLY, EARLY

Sunday - Ride
Monday - Rest
Tuesday - 5 from the house 5:30 a.m.
Wednesday - 7 from the house 5:30 a.m.
Thursday - Rest
Friday - 5 from the house 5:30 a.m.
Saturday - 10 long ones!

Monday, September 15, 2008

High Standards and Bountiful Grace

I was not a runner when Jim McWhinnie was my pastor; it wasn't even a consideration. But lately, when I have been questioning my "distance/endurance running illness" he always seems to have just what I need to hear. I absolutely love it when he says something that strikes right at my heart. This one is right on, as usual when God is speaking "just to you." As runners, and fellow endurance athletes I hope you will receive a personal message as well.

Blessings to you all.

Friday, September 12, 2008

High Standards and Bountiful Grace

"The scribes and the Pharisees tie up heavy burdens and lay them on people's shoulders, but they themselves are unwilling to do anyting to help lift them with as much as a finger." - Matthew 23:4

Jesus had concerns with the religious leadership of his day. They set set high moral demands for the people, but did nothing to help. But where was the fault ... in the eyes of Jesus ... the high standards or the lack of understanding grace?

A very subtle error we can make is to understand "grace" as meaning "anything goes" or "low expectations". Grace is not involved in the setting of the high standard of excellence but in the helping of one to get to that higher excellence.

In the Olympics, the amazing athletes who run the marathon are to accomplish what for most of us seems to be an impossible task. At one of the recent Olympic Games, the officials were concerned for the detrimental effect that the higher than usual heat and humidity might have on the well-being of the runners. But still they ran the marathon at the same distance, but increased the number of water stations and installed cool spray machines along the way.

The marathon is the highest standard of moral excellence; the heat and humidity are symbols of our human frailty; the water stations and the cool spray machines are the grace of God. Some would disagree with me about the need for both high standards and bountiful grace, but this I do believe.

PRAYER FOCUS: Lord, I am willing and committed to running the race but I must confess, I certainly could use Your help ...

Thursday, September 11, 2008

Whew, It's Hot Out There: Again, with the running thing

He didn't win but neither did he lose. He DID earn points for the TEAM, but he had nothing to show for himself. So, is Colin pleased with his first middle school cross country meet? I think so. He started on the line near "the fast kids" but quickly fell back to near 20th place - behind "the fastest kids" and behind his swimming buddies and behind his friend from down the street who he has known since they were toddlers.

The horn sounded and they were off: a mass of more than a hundred boys, maybe closer to two hundred, in grades 6 through 8. Colin broke with the crowd; but quickly fell back - crowds aren't his thing. I watched as the lead pack thinned and the pace was set by one of Colin's Raa teammates - not by the boys who leapt out to the front. I watched as another of Colin's Raa teammates began to edge up towards the front and a couple of the ATAC swimmers were striding along at a pretty peppy pace. Colin was moving up in the ranks, I guess when the pack thinned at first he was about 25th maybe 20th, but he was slowly working his way to the front.

Colin - far left - getting ready to leave the track
The leaders left the track and headed out "to the country" portion of the race. Through a parking lot; around the baseball field and then behind the soccer/football practice field; around the high school and through another parking lot; around the outside of the track and then back in for one quarter of a lap around the track to the finish line and the clock. I can probably name half of the top ten boy runners, and at least down to 11th or 12th where Colin finished - still earning points as the third runner finishing for Raa Middle School. I know there was a Montford boy and a Belle Vue boy in there, and another Deerlake runner I think.

Top Ten Boys - Chiles XC Meet - 9.11.2008
1st - Will Henderson, Raa
2nd - Cameron Wong, Raa
3rd - Scott Fortier, Switft Creek (ATAC swimmer)
6th - Sergey Rogachev, Deerlake (ATAC swimmer)
7th - Trevor Touchton, Swift Creek (friend from the neighborhood)

Top Ten Girls - Chiles XC Meet - 9.11.2008
1st - Rachel Givens, Raa
2nd - Cece Williams, Deerlake (ATAC swimmer)
3rd - Lia Lombardi, Deerlake (ATAC swimmer)
4th - Jessica Beyer, Raa
5th - Ursula McPherson-Vitkus, Raa
9th - Camille Baker, Raa

By-the-way, I find it amusing and important to point out that many of the top ten runners are friends in some way, shape, or form of Colin's. It's a small world.

Raa took first place in both the boys' and girls' divisions of this meet. A great start to a very short season: 3 meets, one championship meet. Way to go Raa Rams! Happy Running!

See you on the streets ...

Monday, September 8, 2008

The Shack

I am a reader as well as a runner. Unfortunately, I tend to "race" through my books, especially the good ones, and then I have to go back and read them all again - at least once. Anyway, that aside, I just finished reading The Shack by William P. Young (http://www.theshackbook.com/). I figured after being told about it twice in two weeks by people who no idea about the other, that I had best get a copy quick and see what it was all about. Particularly, mind you, since both of those persons are near and dear to my heart and have demons, struggles, and tragedies with which they are currently dealing.

So, as I am listening to my friend Maggie telling me about this book she has just finished - the only thing she has been able to concentrate on since losing her son to a drowning accident a little over two weeks ago - I am drawn back to the conversation I had with Chuck one early morning as the sun was coming up about the book he had just finished reading. There are commonalities between these people: they are both runners; they are both firm in their faith; they both have children; they are both either from or live in Southern Georgia; and I know them: separately.

Twenty four hours post-purchase, I can tell you that this is a read well worth your time. I did not know prior to hearing of this book that it was listed in the "Christian Fiction" genre. But, after having read it I can see no other way to classify it other than Best Seller. This book puts God, Jesus, and the Holy Spirit in some of the most human of situations and yet reinforces all that we read in the Bible: about God's holiness. It is amazing! I can see now why my friend Maggie found it so compelling to finish, and why it was a comfort to her in many respects. I can see where we all have our "shack" that brings us to our face-to-face with God. Or, as many people put it: a "come to Jesus meeting." I found it enlightening to know that the Trinity is a unified being, yet three different personalities or faces of God. The descriptions of each face of God are right on; and quite illuminating for those of us (read especially me here) who may be confused by the nature or existence of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit.

I can't nor will I tell you anything plot-related, but I highly recommend you read this book and urge you to visit http://www.theshackbook.com/ to learn a bit more about the author, the story, and "The Missy Project."
Happy Reading!

Thursday, September 4, 2008

And yet again, more miles ... Training: August 31 - September 13

I got a bit behind here, so I will post what I guess to be my run/cross schedule for the next several days. So far so good in keeping to reasonable schedule. I figure 4 days of running that includes one LONG run and then a day (2 or more hours) of riding/cross training should be more than plenty to carry me through injury free. I am battling a tight hamstring in my left leg, but it is not debilitating, just irritating and "twingy." So, onward and forward!

Sunday (8.31): Cross training - better known as road riding - at least 30 miles. Maybe St. Mark's down and back
Monday (9.1): Rest
Tuesday (9.2): 4+ from the house 5:30 a.m.
Wednesday (9.3): 6+ from the house 5:30 a.m.
Thursday: Rest/Rehab hamstring
Friday (9.5): 4+ from the house 5:30 a.m.
Saturday (9.6): 10+ in Killearn Lakes with the Goofy Group 7:30 a.m.

Week of 9.7-13.2008
Sunday: Cross training - Ride - "To Georgia and Back..." or about 40 miles on the "Bruegger's Ride"
Monday: Rest
Tuesday: 4+ from the house 5:30 a.m.
Wednesday: 6+ from the house 5:30 a.m.
Thursday: either 4+ or rest (depends on hamstring...)
Friday: either rest or 4+ (opposite of 9.11 - depending...)
Saturday: Long run with Cathy (as high as 20 miles - Yikes!)

Coaches for a Cause

Mac's "SwimSTRONG" Foundation

Mac's "SwimSTRONG" Foundation
Love this art work. Click for link to the web site. And follow Team TRI Mac at www.trimac-competingforareason.blogspot.com